Where did all the real men go?

The kind that knows what it means to lead but not dominate? The men who deserve respect, because they respects others. The kind that takes care of their women and children not out of obligation but out of desire to do right. Men now-a-days have no idea what HONOR even means. There use to be a time when uncommon valor was a common virtue. Not many people have true wholesome core values. Mannerism and morals have gone with the wind. Where are the true men that women want to love and kids looked up to?
Where are they?

8 comments:

slowburn said...

I haven't gone anywhere!

Marcus said...

They are out there in the crowd, not hiding but hard to see because on the outside they look like everyone else, but they are there, someplace, just waiting to find you or you find them.

Lawless said...

Well said Marcus... Do give up hope..

That Girl said...

i really hope that "LAWLESS" meant don't give up hope.

i think they are out there. kinda like UFO's. ;)

TemptingSweets99 said...

Amen, sista. I have the same question.

Kenny said...

Many of us have had the life beat out of us by women who don't understand our motivation for everything...food and sex...
Some of us that appear to be "real men" are just hiding our indiscretions....really well...
For those select few "real men" you will most likely find a "real woman" standing close to them..

Don't point the finger...pull the thumb...

Calliope said...

@Slowburn, Marcus, TemptingSweet, Lawless and Thatgirl…You are all so sweet. I have not given up hope. I believe that being with someone can be good and I look forward to spending time with someone again.

@Kenny, you are right. Woman now-a-days want to be pampered, they want to get something for nothing. They are spoiled and rude and pass it off as cute. They want to shop and spend like they are on “Desperate House Wives of Orange County” even though in real life their mortgage is two months behind.

They are cruel purposefully and use men to buy them things and get their way only to later tell them they were never good enough. I have watched numerous females treat guys terrible and somehow the men stay. There are those that have spoiled it for both sexes. Please don’t take this as a bashing of men because it is not.

I love men and all their brawniness. I want one who can pick me up and throw me over his shoulder and carry me to safety should the need arise. I want to wake him up in the morning with a “good morning blow job.” I want him to pin me and fuck me good and hard and also know how to caress me and make sweet yummy love to me.

Ps. I am as real as they come! Kenny thank you for following my song :)

slowburn said...

My first comment was a joke (obviously - I think - ;)). I want to say something a bit more meaningful like the other great readers have. Finding someone when you are looking is very frustrating and seems endless. Like everything in life, it may seem like 'one step forward and two steps back', but you have to keep trying. I guess the difficulty for you is that you've already been married and know what it is like on the other side (the good and bad). Every man you meet is one person closer to the next big relationship. So you just have to keep going. :)