Let's Role Play Baby......

My girlfriend out in Wyoming is bored with her sex life and suggested to her husband to spice things up they could engage in some role playing. His enthusiasm however was not returned.
If you are brave enough to PLAY, here are a few ideas.

Cop and Bad Guy/Girl

In this scenario, figure out who gets to be who. You can have any female or male combination that you’d like, so long as you keep a straight face and a pair of handcuffs handy. The partner playing the cop role may want to knock on the bedroom door and holler out, “Police, open up!” When the bad guy/girl answers the door, they can deny anything that they’re accused of. But in order to be thorough with his/her job as a cop, they may have to handcuff and perform a thorough strip search. And this means EVERYWHERE a weapon just might be found. Fun things to use include a cop uniform and a badge, handcuffs (of course), and even a play gun for effect. The bad guy/girl can plead for their innocence and offer to do ANYTHING to get out of the charges…and their clothes for that matter.

Doctor and Patient

Much like the cop scenario, partners get to choose roles to play. The doctor or nurse can also perform a very thorough examination of every part of the patient. Perhaps the doctor is trying to make sure that the patient can still have an orgasm, or a few. You can use a lab coat and a stethoscope for the doctor part. And those cold ends of the stethoscope can help to perk up a lot of places on the body, as well as the heart. And what if the insurance doesn’t cover the appointment? There’s sure to be something that the patient can work something out…

Arabian Nights

For a more ethnic and exotic role play, you can set up your own harem. This works out well with a male in the power position and the women as a part of the harem. Perhaps the woman has to perform for the man as he wishes her too— belly dancing and all. Or perhaps she is new to the harem and needs a little training as to how the master wishes her to behave and please him.

Stripper and Customer

Of course, many of the readers will automatically think that the woman will be in the stripper role, but this isn’t always necessary. Men can strip just as well. The customer can make sure that the stripper works for it. Perhaps a private show is in order if the stripper isn’t as pleasing as the customer had hoped. Wearing some provocative lingerie at this point is completely appropriate-- along with high heeled boots or shoes is a great touch.


While the issues of who gets to serve who is a little interesting. Women are always wonderful in the little French maid outfit, but what about the men? Well, they can always be the boy toy at the command of their woman. Have them do inane things, but make sure that they’re in the skimpiest of outfits. Lots of bending over and sexual favors are mandatory.

Naughty School Girl/Boy

If you’ve ever had a detention or just had to stay after school, you hoped that there was a way to make it more tolerable. Well, now you can live out that fantasy. No longer do you have to write your name over and over. The teacher can come up with other ways to work off the offense. And of course, the teacher will need some coercing into the ‘punishment.’

The Innocent

This role play works best with the woman in the innocent position, but men can be there as well. The person who is the innocent needs to unaware that they are being sexy. Perhaps they can wear something overly provocative, like a body stocking, under their clothing and when the other one finds this, they can ‘teach’ them about how to please someone or something else that they can do.

Boss and Employee

Most people have had the fantasy about their boss or a coworker, so why not bring that into the bedroom as well? Perhaps there’s been a bed performance review or something that has gone wrong, so the employee at fault needs to find a way to correct their actions. On the other hand, perhaps the employee can talk to the boss about being promoted and offer to help with the process.

Hooker and customer

This role play is much like the stripper, but you can be a little more saucy and risky with it. Perhaps you can have the woman walk the street near the house one night in a provocative outfit, short shorts etc and be ‘picked up’ by the man as though she were a prostitute. There would be a discussion of what services could be rendered as well as payment.

The stranger

Like the prostitute role play, you can take this one out of the bedroom. Arrange to meet each other in a certain bar, but then pretend to pick one of the other up. Play it off as though you know nothing about each other. And then go home and find out everything that you can.

Role playing ideas came from this website: http://ezinearticles.com/?10-Suggestions-for-Themed-Role-plays-to-Spice-up-Your-Bedroom 
Ps. feel free to write suggestions in the comments or more role playing ideas. I would love to hear what my readers like. Also the embedded poll did not work so please vote if you would engage in role play in the side bar!


slowburn said...

Tried to vote, but it kept coming up bad request. Sorry.

slowburn said...

I'd gladly do any of the scenarios you suggest (they all seem like fun). The thing that turns me on the most about role playing is when the woman takes the lead and really gets into it. ;)

Calliope said...

Trying to fix the poll. Grrrr......

AnnaBelle Forester said...

Poor gal, too bad her husband is not willing to participate. I'd think a little spice and variety would be good for both of them. I liked all of your suggestions, but The Stranger one particularly got my interest. I would definitely be up for these types of games, but honestly what would it hurt, a man and his wife, playing within the confines of their marriage???

This is definitely one of my favorites you have written in a while. ;)

That Girl said...

i love this!! great ideas ... now just to find a partner to do them with. ;)

Calliope said...

@slowburn- vote at the right side bar on the main page. Ps. I like to take charge ;)

@AnnaBelle- The very least he could do is try, it would be fun and perhaps even a little silly and being a little sillr now and then is good.

@Thatgirl- I know I am looking. I may have someone soon....we are in the test phase.

Lawless said...

Some may like the dom/sub roleplay as well... lots of avenues to travel there as well.

Kenny said...

I thought the Stranger was when you sat on your hand until it fell asleep then jacked off with it...

I like the roll playing...

You did forget "Russian Spys" Hera loves the Russian accent.

I find it hard to roll play with Hera...she just sits and giggles...then says some shit like, "Don't forget to have me talk to the kids coach tomorrow.." Ruins it every time...

That Girl said...

the test stage huh? so, rehersal then? lol and oh my god, @kenny. laughing really hard re: the coach comment.

Calliope said...

@Lawless-Agreed the dom-sub role play is nice. It would be the one I would use the most.

@Kenny-That sounds about accurate. It is hard not to giggle when you know you are being silly. Us woman can't help but remind ourselves of things as they cross our mind. Make sure you get her so into it there is NO room in her brain for anything but you!

@ Thatgirl- A dress rehearsal for sure.