Having been told by more than one person I am a lot to handle; I need to find a man that can “handle” me. I need a man that knows how to take charge.
Let me clarify…Take charge in the bedroom.
I want a man that will initiate sex. One that wants me so damn bad he can barely make it past the front door before he is ripping my clothes off. Someone who will fling me on to the bed and come take what he wants. I want a man that can be forceful but also tender and loving.
Recently I have found myself selecting men whom are in positions of authority with the hope I will find someone that has more of that “authoritative dominate” personality. The biggest issue for me though is finding a man that understands the differences between being dominating in a good way and controlling and cruel.
I have always been a very strong person in character and in personality, partly because I had to be and partly because it is just who I am. While I want to be dominated it does not mean I shouldn't have an opinion. It is a delicate balance between bending and breaking, between willful and ordering, between taking no and being a doormat.
So……DO YOU EXSIT?