Since becoming a single mother I have had to cut expenses everywhere to stay afloat. I had to really look at my finances and see what was need and what was want.I thank God every day my kids are still impressed with Mac & Cheese and Top Roman as a meal.
The first thing to go was all the extra channels. No more Showtime, Cinamax, or even HBO. I hate that I will miss some of my favorite series like Tutors, True Blood, and Dexter, but sacrifices must be made and I can live without them. Needing to make more cuts the XM went, then the Internet for about a month so I could coerce Charter into a new package deal.
Vanity was the hardest; Proactive, Bare Minerals, manicures, pedicures and waxing.
The waxing of the lady parts; a need or a want? I figured no one was really enjoying all the effort and at $60.00 bucks a pop I could defiantly find a better use for that money, so I started shaving again and instantly regretted it.
After getting waxed for almost a year I had forgotten how much work is involved in shaving. All the skin irritation, the ingrown hairs and the shear inconvenience of the frequency needed to keep it up. I guess I could have let it go all native and wild down there but the mere thought was a turn off and that got me thinking; do guys like it well kept with some hair or do men nowadays prefer bare down there?
Talking it over with a few guy friends I got mixed reviews. The ones that were closer to my own age said bare down there, while I was shocked that this twenty-four year old said it needed to be a little wild down there. I know going bare down there became a big thing when I was in college and I am wondering if like anything else is the pendulum beginning to swing back the other way?
I polled 10 guys only 2 said wild, 5 trimmed or bare and the other 3 said bare all the way. I weighed out all the pros and cons and quickly decided something else would have to be cut. Regardless if anyone is getting to enjoy the effort I like it better waxed and pristine. I want my playground ready should someone decide to cum and play!
(Just a side thought.) I like a guy to be neat and tight down there. It doesn't need to be bare or waxed but neat and trimmed. It makes giving oral sex more pleasurable.