Perhaps I am in the minority and I over think sex but it is because I love the act of it and all that it entails. What makes me absolutely crazy is all a guy has to do is show up, that's it! Being rain checked, blown off, or flat out stood up is disrespectful and irritating! I spend time and money to get prepared to see you the very least you can do is show up and fuck my brains out like promised!
When I know I am going to meet up with someone I take all the extra little steps to make sure that it will be wonderful. I have my toes done, I get the lady parts waxed, I shave my legs and arms, I spend a week or more making sure every inch of my skin has been properly lotioned so it will be soft like cashmere.
I methodically choose my outfit as well as making sure my bra and panty set is not one you have already seen me in. I make sure to select my perfume carefully so there is a hint of my scent but not over powering. There is a delicate balance to be maintained to smell good but not sickening sweet. I want my scent to linger on your skin after I have gone.
All these things take careful planing so when you make promises to make me scream and make my toes curl and my cunt spasm with pleasure you damn well better show up, after all it is all you have to do!